i miss us. all of us.
Why the wedding ring is worn on the fourth finger:
The Chinese give a beautiful explanation to this.
- The thumb represents your parents.
- The index finger represents your siblings.
- The middle finger represents yourself.
- The ring finger represents your life partner.
- The little finger/pinky represents your children.
Hold your hands together like the picture. Join your middle fingers back-to-back, and the remaining fingers tip-to-tip.
Now, try to separate your thumbs. They will separate because your parents are not destined to live with you forever. Rejoin your thumbs and separate your index fingers. They will separate because your siblings will have their own families and lead their own lives. Rejoin your index fingers and separate your little fingers/pinkies. They will separate because your children will grow up, get married, and settle down. Rejoin your little fingers/pinkies and try to separate your ring finger. They will not be able to separate because your life partner is meant to be with you throughout your entire life, through thick and thin.
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lets, talk.
its 2:44AM.
im writing and deleting.
“mya-for the first time“ says is all, i guess.
in the middle of conversation, i just shut down. i had so many thoughts running through my mind, i was physically sitting in this bed with the phone to my ear, but mentally i was walking down a long empty road with a flower in my head, discussing all the things i should say, or shouldn’t say. i don’t know if i should praise or run but im embracing whatever is happening. i literally had every intention of opening my mouth and continuing the random conversations we always have but nothing was coming out. i was deep in my thought, to the core of its reasoning and i needed to understand my findings. 2000 letters were sent full of expression. not even sure if any of it made sense or if it was enough, but i wanted whatever i had on my mind to flow like word vomit— no edits or proof reads so i know what im saying is instinct. so i know what im saying is real. i havent said much in the last 3 hours, perhaps my thoughts are still surfacing. perhaps, youre..
youre sleeping — i miss you.
i dont know whats come over me. but i just want you next to me.
"Im not trying to be your lady, I just want to mirror her worth. If that happens to be the outcome, well, consider me lucky."
A Year Ago Today..
“Anjelica & Ebony: you know what our problem is? we worry entirely too much. and think even more. this is the year of our 20s. the year of experiences and mistakes. i mean. i understand we’re getting older and we’re supose to be more responsible and blah blah, but every now and then, stepping out of our element wouldnt be so bad. we should smile more. and laugh harder. keep praying and hope alive. i love you both-lets make history and never stop dreaming. because whenever we are able to do everything we talk about—this world will be in for a rude awakening ♥ :)”
this is what i said. and this is what we’ve been doing.
“are you alive? i hope so. cause i would hate to dig you out of a pile of debris and carry yo dead ass around with me everywhere i went.”- My Bestfriend.
i love how she expresses her love for me <3
"I asked God for a blessing and He gave me opportunities. The rest is up to me."
